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BETWEEN 52 AND DEATH.
🚩Between 52 and death. It’s time to use the money you saved up. Use it and enjoy it. Don’t just keep it for those who may have no notion of the sacrifices you made to get it.
🚩 Remember there is nothing more dangerous than a son or daughter-in-law with big ideas for your hard-earned capital.
🚩 Warning: This is also a bad time for investments, even if it seems wonderful or fool-proof. They only bring problems and worries. This is a time for you to enjoy some peace and quiet.
🚩 Stop worrying about the financial situation of your children and grandchildren, and don’t feel bad spending your money on yourself. You’ve taken care of them for many years, and you’ve taught them what you could. You gave them an education, food, shelter and support. The responsibility is now theirs to earn their own money.
🚩 Keep a healthy life, without great physical effort. Do moderate exercise (like walking every day), eat well and get your sleep. It’s easy to become sick, and it gets harder to remain healthy. That is why you need to keep yourself in good shape and be aware of your medical and physical needs. Keep in touch with your doctor, do tests even when you’re feeling well, Stay informed.
🚩 Always buy the best, most beautiful items for your significant other. The key goal is to enjoy your money with your partner. One day one of you will miss the other, and the money will not provide any comfort then, enjoy it together.
🚩 Don’t stress over the little things. You’ve already overcome so much in your life. You have good memories and bad ones, but the important thing is the present. Don’t let the past drag you down and don’t let the future frighten you. Feel good in the now. Small issues will soon be forgotten.
🚩 Regardless of age, always keep love alive. Love your partner, love life, love your family, love your neighbor and remember: “A man is not old as long as he has intelligence and affection.”
🚩 Be proud, both inside and out. Don’t stop going to your hair salon or barber, do your nails, go to the dermatologist and the dentist, keep your perfumes and creams well stocked. When you are well-maintained on the outside, it seeps in, making you feel proud and strong.
🚩 Don’t lose sight of fashion trends for your age, but keep your own sense of style. You’ve developed your own sense of what looks good on you – keep it and be proud of it. It’s part of who you are.
🚩 ALWAYS stay up-to-date. Read newspapers, watch the news. Go online and read what people are saying. Make sure you have an active email account and try to use some of those social networks. You’ll be surprised what old friends you’ll meet.
🚩 Respect the younger generation and their opinions. They may not have the same ideals as you, but they are the future, and will take the world in their direction. Give advice, not criticism, and try to remind them that yesterday’s wisdom still applies today.
Never use the phrase: “In my time.” Your time is now. As long as you’re alive, you are part of this time.
🚩 Some people embrace their golden years, while others become bitter and surely Life is too short to waste your days on the latter. Spend your time with positive, cheerful people, it’ll rub off on you and your days will seem that much better. Spending your time with bitter people will make you feel older and harder to be around.
🚩 Do not surrender to the temptation of living with your children or grandchildren (if you have a financial choice, that is). Sure, being surrounded by family sounds great, but we all need our privacy. They need theirs and you need yours. Even then, do so only if you feel you really need the help or do not want to live by yourself
🚩 Don’t abandon your hobbies. If you don’t have any, make new ones. You can travel, hike, cook, read, dance. You can adopt a cat or a dog, grow a kitchen garden, play cards, checkers, chess, dominoes, golf.
🚩 Try to go. Get out of the house, meet people you haven’t seen in a while, experience something new (or something old). The important thing is to leave the house from time to time. Go to museums, go walk through a park. Get out there.
🚩 Speak in courteous tones and try not to complain or criticize too much unless you really need to. Try to accept situations as they are.
🚩 Pains and discomfort go hand in hand with getting older. Try not to dwell on them but accept them as a part of the life.
🚩 If you’ve been offended by someone – forgive them. If you’ve offended someone - apologize. Don’t drag around resentment with you. It only serves to make you sad and bitter. It doesn’t matter who was right. Someone once said: “Holding a grudge is like taking poison and expecting the other person to die.” Don’t take that poison. Forgive, forget and move on with your life.
🚩 Laugh. Laugh away your worries Remember, you are one of the lucky ones. You managed to have a life, a long one. Many never get to this age, never get to experience a full life.
*My Valued Friends, Enjoy Peaceful Life At This Point In Your Life.*
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*Anger is one short of Danger*
A monk decides to meditate alone, away from his monastery. He takes his boat out to the middle of the lake, moors it there, closes his eyes and begins his meditation.
After a few hours of undisturbed silence, he suddenly feels the bump of another boat colliding with his own. With his eyes still closed, he senses his anger rising, and by the time he opens his eyes, he is ready to scream at the boatman who dared disturb his meditation.
But when he opens his eyes, he sees it’s an empty boat that had probably got untethered and floated to the middle of the lake.
At that moment, the monk achieves self-realization, and understands that the *anger is within him;* it merely needs the bump of an external object to provoke it out of him.
From then on, whenever he comes across someone who irritates him or provokes him to anger, he reminds himself, *“The other person is merely an empty boat. The anger is within me.”*
*Some people create their own storm and get upset when it rains.*
......Have a day full of compassion.
*नमस्कार सुप्रभात।* ... See MoreSee Less
Happy Ganesh Chaturthi
I have been reading a lot these days and as it’s in my system I connect everything with our children and our day to day life .
I have been writing something and felt like sharing this with you all..,
we always keep saying “ There is no time left , time is going so fast “
NO , time is not going ,it’s there till the time world exists . It’s we who are going . Time is infinite but we are finite , we are the ones who are ,who will grow and die one fine day . So make best use of yourself, love and get loved.
The best thing we can do for ourselves and for our children is not to compare with others.
Recollect the all time favourite story of “ Slow and steady wins the race “ it’s so very irrelevant in today’s fast moving world . A rabbit and tortoise can’t be compared on their running capability on the land , the rabbit will get drowned in water but the tortoise will survive hundreds of years in the same water .
An aspiring actress doesn’t need to be excellent in maths and a future scientist won’t have to get 99% in history. Identify your child’s strength and weaknesses, Polish on their strengths and except their weaknesses. Remember, your child’s strength can be a weakness for someone else and vice versa .
Our children are so lucky to be growing up in today’s world which is filled with so many diverse career options. May it be a runner,!a dancer , a Doctor ,a traveller ......., so we won’t need to train them to win the race at any cost but to run their own race where everyone is a winner.
Just imagine the world with all love and laughter where everyone is winner on his / her own capacity.
“ When New and Crisp notes enter the market, the Old and soggy notes still carries the same value.” ... See MoreSee Less
*The Four Seasons*
There was a man who had four sons. He wanted his sons to learn to *not judge things too quickly.* So he sent them each on a quest, in turn, to go and look at a pear tree that was a great distance away.
The first son went in the winter, the second in the spring, the third in summer, and the youngest son in the fall.
When they had all gone and come back, he called them together to describe what they had seen.
*The first son* said that the tree was ugly, bent, and twisted.
*The second son* said no – it was covered with green buds and full of promise.
*The third son* disagreed, he said it was laden with blossoms that smelled so sweet and looked so beautiful, it was the most graceful thing he had ever seen.
*The last son* disagreed with all of them; he said it was ripe and drooping with fruit, full of life and fulfillment.
The man then explained to his sons that they were all right, because they had each seen but one season in the tree’s life.
*Moral of the story*
He told them that you cannot judge a tree, or a person, by only one season, and that the essence of who they are – and the pleasure, joy, and love that come from that life – can only be measured at the end, when all the seasons are up.
*If you give up when it’s winter, you will miss the promise of your spring, the beauty of your summer, fulfilment of your fall.*
*Don’t judge a life by one difficult season.* Don’t let the pain of one season destroy the joy of all the rest. ... See MoreSee Less
*Your Time is Coming*
Life might be painful right now, but remember pain is temporary. Life might be confusing right now, but remember it's worked out before. *Everytime you've been worried in the past, it's now a memory.* Don't stress, everything will be fine. You've got this, focus. Believe.
*The day you plant the seed is not the day you eat the fruit.* Be patient. Be humble. Keep moving forward and know that all this hard work you're putting in day in and day out WILL produce the results you've been looking for. *Your time is coming. Do not give up.*
Just because it doesn’t happen right away doesn’t mean it won’t happen for you. Don’t give up. Don’t count yourself out. Don’t feed the negative thoughts and fear that might pop up to make you doubt yourself. *Keep trusting. Keep believing. Keep going. Your time is coming.* ... See MoreSee Less