Stress in Life? Need someone to talk?

Are you facing stress? Do you have relationship issues? Self esteem low? Your child is behaving abnormal? Do you feel you are not compatible with your life partner? Need to talk? We are here to help you out! Get solution for stress relationship issues, low self esteem, anger management, marriage counselling,pre-marital counselling and other physiological issues.

We are here to help you out!

Kalpvriksha is a counselling center to help people in stress. We will  take you to the new level of emotional heights and confidence which will give you a new life and positive approach towards life!

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We arrange workshops at schools, corporate office, societies, clubs on several topics. We also provice counselling, therapy on one to one basic or in group sitting.

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एक बैल की कहानी ....!!!!!!!!

वर्ष था 1950... भारत को आजाद हुए कुछ ही वक्त बीता था। देहरादून का इंडियन मिलिट्री ऐकेडमी के ज्वाइंट सर्विसेज विंग में सेना, एयरफोर्स और नेवी के कैडेट्स की साझा ट्रेनिंग चल रही थी (क्योंकि उस वक्त तक खडगवासला में नेशनल डिफेंस ऐकेडमी पूरी तरह से बनकर तैयार नही हुई थी।)

एक सत्रह साल के कैडेट को बाॅक्सिंग रिंग में अपने सीनियर बैच के कैडेट का मुकाबला करना था। वो सीनियर कैडेट बड़ा ही ब्रिलियेंट और बेहतरीन बाॅक्सर था।
वो सीनियर बैच का कैडेट था भविष्य का भारतीय सेना का सेनाध्यक्ष जनरल S.F. राॅड्रिग्स जिस का बाॅक्सिंग रिंग में दबदबा रहता था।

उसके सामने था सत्रह साल का जूनियर कैडेट नरेन्द्र कुमार शर्मा। पाकिस्तान के रावलपिंडी मे पैदा हुआ वो लडका, जिसका परिवार देश के विभाजन के समय भागकर भारत आया था। घमासान बाॅक्सिंग मैच हुआ और भविष्य के सेनाध्यक्ष ने जूनियर कैडेट नरेन्द्र कुमार शर्मा का भूत बनाकर रख दिया।

वो जूनियर लडका बुरी तरह पिटा, मगर पीछे नहीं हटा। बार बार पलटकर आता, मारता और मार भी खाता मगर पीछे हटने को तैयार ना होता। अंतत: कैडेट S.F. राॅड्रिग्स ने वो मुकाबला जीत लिया। जूनियर कैडेट बुरी तरह पिटकर हारा जरूर मगर उसी बाॅक्सिंग मैच में मैच देखने वाले कैडेट्स ने उसको एक #निकनेम दे दिया। जो जीवन भर उसके नाम से चिपका रहा। वो निकनेम था BULL यानि बैल ......

वो बैल मात्र तीन दिन पहले दिल्ली के धौलाकुंआ स्थित आर्मी के R.R. हाॅस्पिटल में अपनी जिंदगी का आखिरी मुकाबला, मौत से हार गया।
देश का एक हीरो चुपचाप दुनिया से चला गया Unknown and unsung ....बहुत कम लोगों को ये मालूम है नरेन्द्र कुमार "बुल" आखिर थे कौन ????

वो बंदा फौज में कर्नल से आगे नहीं बढ़ सका, क्योकि हमेशा बर्फीले पहाड़ों की चोटिया लाँघते उस बैल के पैरों में एक भी उंगली नहीं बची थी। उसके लगातार मिशन चलते रहे। सारी उंगलियां गलकर गिर गईं। अपंग हुए, मगर उनके मिशन नही रुके।

आज अगर भारत देश #सियाचीन_ग्लेशियर पर बैठा है, अगर भारत ग्लेशियरों की उन ऊँचाइयों का मास्टर है, एक एक रास्ते का जानकार है, और पाकिस्तान को सियाचिन से दूर रखने में कामयाब रहा है, तो उसका श्रेय मात्र एक ही व्यक्ति को जाता है, वो थे कर्नल नरेन्द्र कुमार शर्मा यानि नरेन्द्र "बुल " कुमार ....

उन सुनसान बर्फीले ग्लेशियरों पर शून्य से 60° कम तापमान में अपने देश की खातिर बुल ने ना जाने कितने अभियानों का नेतृत्व किया। नक्शे बनाये, उस दुर्गम क्षेत्र की एक एक जानकारी हासिल की। उनके नक्शे, फोटोग्राफ, भारत की ग्लेशियर पर विजय का आधार स्तंभ बने। इलाके में विदेशी पर्वतारोही अभियानों और पाकिस्तानी दखल की जानकारी भारत और दुनिया को दी। उन रास्तों का पता लगाया, उनकी स्थिति नक्शे, फोटोग्राफ जहाँ से पाकिस्तानी सियाचीन पर कब्जा करने की ताक में थे । वो सब अपने सैनिको को दी।

यही वजह थी कि सरकार ने आॅपरेशन #मेघदूत जिसके जरिये सियाचीन पर कब्जा किया था । उस आॅपरेशन की जिम्मेदारी नरेन्द्र बुल कुमार की अपनी रेजीमेंट यानि #कुमायूँ_रेजीमेंट को दी थी।

पूरा देश नरेन्द्र "बुल" का ऋणी है। जिन्होंने अपने शरीर के अंगों को बर्फ मे गलाकर, सालों साल दुर्गम ग्लेशियरों में बिताकर, असंख्य चोटियाें पर पर्वतारोही अभियानों में फतह हासिल की। जो सही मायने में Father of siachen glacier कहलाने का हकदार है।

वो शानदार पर्वतारोही, वो ग्लेशियरों का सरताज, कर्नल नरेन्द्र "बुल कुमार 31 दिसम्बर 2020 को चल बसा। मगर अफसोस देश के अहसान फरामोश लोग उस जियाले हीरो के नाम तक से परिचित नहीं ।

देश का हीरो, एक नायक, गुमनामी में रहकर ही चल बसा।

सर, हर देशवासी की आेर से आपको इस ऋणी नागरिक और आपकी कुमायूँ रेजीमेंट की तरफ से शत शत नमन .....
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Science has recently discovered that when a woman becomes pregnant, there are many cells from the baby that remain in the mother's body, and some of these living cells even remain with her for the rest of her life.

Science has also discovered that cells of the mother are also exchanged with her children and remain with her children for life. And in something that is sure to bring tears to the face of every mother, it has been scientifically verified by the Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology at the University of Washington that even if a mother experiences a miscarriage or has an abortion, living cells of those children, too, remain in her body. Isn't that amazing!

This gives a whole new understanding of a "mother's intuition." Indeed, in one article I read, a scientist quipped about how science has now come to understand how a mother intuitively knows things about her children, not because she is looking over their shoulder, but because she is in their shoulder!

It has also been scientifically verified that when a mother experiences certain illnesses, the living cells of her children that remain in her body have been found in the area of illness. Initially, the researchers thought that the cells might be the cause of the mother's illness, but now they are of the belief that the cells of a mother's children that are in the area of her illness are trying to fight off the illness and protect the life of the mother. That's incredible! Thus, having babies really is healing for a woman. Ironically, even if a woman killed the child in her womb through having an abortion, the child she killed fights for the life of the mother when she is sick.

Motherhood is such an incredible mystery!”
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Mom's Recipe
My mom did not sleep. She felt exhausted. She was irritable, grumpy, and bitter. She was always sick until one day, suddenly, she changed.

One day my dad said to her: I've been looking for a job for three months and I haven't found anything, I'm going to have a few beers with friends.

My mom replied: It's okay.

My brother said to her: Mom, I'm doing poorly in all subjects at the University.

My mom replied: Okay, you will recover, and if you don't, well, you repeat the semester, but you pay the tuition.

My sister said to her: Mom, I smashed the car.

My mom replied: Okay daughter, take it to the car shop & find how to pay and while they fix it, get around by bus or subway.

Her daughter-in-law said to her: Mother-in-law, I came to spend a few months with you.

My mom replied: Okay, settle in the living room couch and look for some blankets in the closet.

All of us gathered worried to see these reactions coming from Mom.

We suspected that she had gone to the doctor and that she was prescribed some pills called "I don't give a damn”... Perhaps she was overdosing on these!

We then proposed to do an "intervention" w/my mother to remove her from any possible addiction she had towards some anti-tantrum medication.

But then ... she gathered us around her and my mom explained:

"It took me a long time to realize that each person is responsible for their life. It took me years to discover that my anguish, anxiety, my depression, my courage, my insomnia & my stress, does not solve your problems but aggravates mine.

I am not responsible for the actions of anyone & it’s not my job to provide happiness but I am responsible for the reactions I express to that.

Therefore, I came to the conclusion that my duty to myself is to remain calm and let each one of you solve what corresponds to you.

I have taken courses in yoga, meditation, miracles, human development, mental hygiene, vibration and neurolinguistic programming and in all of them, I found a common denominator in them all...

I can only control myself, you have all the necessary resources to solve your own problems despite how hard they may be. My job is to pray for you, love on you, encourage you but it’s up to YOU to solve them & find your happiness.

I can only give you my advice if you ask me & it depends on you to follow it or not. There are consequences, good or bad, to your decisions and YOU have to live them.

So from now on, I cease to be the receptacle of your responsibilities, the sack of your guilt, the laundress of your remorse, the advocate of your faults, the wall of your lamentations, the depositary of your duties, who should solve your problems or spare a tire every time to fulfill your responsibilities.

From now on, I declare all independent and self-sufficient adults.

Everyone at my mom's house was speechless.

*From that day on, the family began to function better because everyone in the house knew exactly what it is that they needed to do.*

For some of us this is hard because we've grown up being the caregivers feeling responsible for others. As moms & wives we are fixers off all things. We never want our loved ones to go through difficult things or to struggle. We want everyone to be happy.

But, the sooner we take that responsibility off of our shoulders & on to each loved one, the better we are preparing them to be MEsponsible.

We are not here on earth to be everything to everyone. Stop putting that pressure on yourself.
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Mom's Recipe
My mom did not sleep. She felt exhausted. She was irritable, grumpy, and bitter. She was always sick until one day, suddenly, she changed.

One day my dad said to her: I've been looking for a job for three months and I haven't found anything, I'm going to have a few beers with friends.

My mom replied: It's okay.

My brother said to her: Mom, I'm doing poorly in all subjects at the University.

My mom replied: Okay, you will recover, and if you don't, well, you repeat the semester, but you pay the tuition.

My sister said to her: Mom, I smashed the car.

My mom replied: Okay daughter, take it to the car shop & find how to pay and while they fix it, get around by bus or subway.

Her daughter-in-law said to her: Mother-in-law, I came to spend a few months with you.

My mom replied: Okay, settle in the living room couch and look for some blankets in the closet.

All of us gathered worried to see these reactions coming from Mom.

We suspected that she had gone to the doctor and that she was prescribed some pills called "I don't give a damn”... Perhaps she was overdosing on these!

We then proposed to do an "intervention" w/my mother to remove her from any possible addiction she had towards some anti-tantrum medication.

But then ... she gathered us around her and my mom explained:

"It took me a long time to realize that each person is responsible for their life. It took me years to discover that my anguish, anxiety, my depression, my courage, my insomnia & my stress, does not solve your problems but aggravates mine.

I am not responsible for the actions of anyone & it’s not my job to provide happiness but I am responsible for the reactions I express to that.

Therefore, I came to the conclusion that my duty to myself is to remain calm and let each one of you solve what corresponds to you.

I have taken courses in yoga, meditation, miracles, human development, mental hygiene, vibration and neurolinguistic programming and in all of them, I found a common denominator in them all...

I can only control myself, you have all the necessary resources to solve your own problems despite how hard they may be. My job is to pray for you, love on you, encourage you but it’s up to YOU to solve them & find your happiness.

I can only give you my advice if you ask me & it depends on you to follow it or not. There are consequences, good or bad, to your decisions and YOU have to live them.

So from now on, I cease to be the receptacle of your responsibilities, the sack of your guilt, the laundress of your remorse, the advocate of your faults, the wall of your lamentations, the depositary of your duties, who should solve your problems or spare a tire every time to fulfill your responsibilities.

From now on, I declare all independent and self-sufficient adults.

Everyone at my mom's house was speechless.

*From that day on, the family began to function better because everyone in the house knew exactly what it is that they needed to do.*

For some of us this is hard because we've grown up being the caregivers feeling responsible for others. As moms & wives we are fixers off all things. We never want our loved ones to go through difficult things or to struggle. We want everyone to be happy.

But, the sooner we take that responsibility off of our shoulders & on to each loved one, the better we are preparing them to be MEsponsible.

We are not here on earth to be everything to everyone. Stop putting that pressure on yourself.
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